Maintaining Motherhood While Fighting Alcoholism & Drugs | Millie T.
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Millie shares her incredible story of resilience and recovery after years of battling addiction.
From growing up in an alcoholic family to hitting rock bottom after years of substance abuse, Millie recounts her journey of finding hope, rebuilding her life, and inspiring others through recovery. Her story is a testament to the power of surrender and faith.
Hear an inspiring story of transformation and gain hope and actionable insights for your own recovery journey.
Growing Up
Millie grew up in Philadelphia in a strict household with her parents, two brothers, and two sisters. Her father was a functioning alcoholic, though she didn't recognize it at the time. She believed her family was normal—they had a piano, went on family drives, and enjoyed vacations. Despite this, Millie often felt different and struggled with self-esteem, even as she grew into adulthood.
First Time Engaging in Behavioral Addiction
Millie’s first experience with alcohol occurred at an under-21 club. She drank heavily to fit in, leading to her first blackout. Though she didn’t like the taste of alcohol, the need to be accepted drove her to continue drinking. Eventually, she began experimenting with cocaine and fell into a pattern of using substances as an escape.
Active Addiction
Millie’s addiction spiraled as she balanced a high-pressure corporate career, motherhood, and substance use. She transitioned from drinking and snorting cocaine to freebasing, often hiding her addiction behind a facade of success. Her relationships suffered, including her marriage, which ended due to infidelity and domestic violence. Addiction also led her to reckless behaviors, such as selling drugs and using her home for drug activities, all while her young daughter bore witness to the chaos.
Hitting Bottom
Her lowest point came after a series of traumatic events, including her brother’s suicide and losing control over her life. She found herself unable to work, selling household items to fund her addiction, and feeling consumed by shame and hopelessness. In desperation, she prayed for just one day of sobriety, marking a pivotal moment in her journey.
Getting Help
After hitting rock bottom, Millie sought help through treatment programs and a support network. Initially resistant, she began to embrace recovery, finding solace and strength in addiction support groups. With perseverance, she achieved sobriety and began rebuilding her life, focusing on personal growth, faith, and service to others.
What Things Look Life Today
Today, Millie is a shining example of resilience and recovery. She has embraced her age, found purpose in helping others, and rebuilt her life as a performer and mentor. She credits her spiritual connection, the support of recovery communities, and her determination to her transformative journey. Millie now lives a life of fulfillment, embodying the promises of recovery.
FAQs
What is addiction recovery?
Addiction recovery is a lifelong process of overcoming dependency on substances or behaviors and building a fulfilling life.
How can someone start recovery?
Recovery often begins with seeking help through treatment programs, therapy, or support groups like AA or NA.
What are the signs of addiction?
Signs include compulsive use despite negative consequences, withdrawal symptoms, and prioritizing substance use over responsibilities.
How does addiction affect families?
Addiction can cause emotional strain, financial stress, and disrupted relationships within families.
Can people fully recover from addiction?
Yes, with the right support, treatment, and commitment, people can achieve lasting sobriety and rebuild their lives.
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