Adopted, Disconnected, and Lonely
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Show Notes
Corey and his good friend, Betsy, journey through her family of origin and early years and how her childhood set the stage for addiction. Betsy describes in detail how she turned things around, restoring her soul, and enjoying long term sobriety.
Early Struggles and Realizations
Betsy began her story by recounting her early life, marked by frequent moves, physical abuse from a stepfather, and a volatile relationship with her mother. As a sensitive child, these experiences left deep emotional scars. Betsy’s struggle with feeling different and unsettled led her to seek escape through substances at a young age.
The Descent into Addiction
Betsy’s substance use started in her early teens, with her first drink from a stolen jar of whiskey. This marked the beginning of her descent into addiction. Moving frequently, Betsy found herself trying to escape her reality through alcohol and drugs, leading to increasingly dangerous behaviors.
A Wake-Up Call and the Turning Point
Despite the tumult, Betsy found solace in school, where structure and kindness provided a temporary refuge. However, it wasn’t until she started working and read the book "Adult Children of Alcoholics" that she began to confront the deep-seated issues from her past. This book resonated with her, revealing the roots of her people-pleasing tendencies, low self-esteem, and lack of boundaries.
The Road to Recovery
Betsy’s journey to recovery involved finding a community of people with similar experiences. This community provided a space where she could share her story, feel accepted, and begin to heal. Recognizing that her most toxic relationship was with herself, Betsy took steps to address her substance use and emotional wounds.
Building a New Life in Sobriety
Post-recovery, Betsy’s life transformed. She went back to school, built a career, and eventually became a mother. Each step was marked by personal growth and the development of healthier relationships. Betsy found joy in simple pleasures like dancing and laughing, which helped her stay present and connected.
Embracing New Passions and Connections
Betsy’s sobriety journey included embracing activities that brought her joy and fulfillment. From dancing to spending time with her children, she discovered that life could be vibrant and fun without substances. Her commitment to personal growth and community support played a crucial role in her sustained sobriety.
A Message of Hope
Betsy’s story is one of transformation and hope. Her journey highlights the importance of self-awareness, community, and the power of personal growth. For those struggling with addiction or seeking to maintain sobriety, Betsy’s experiences offer valuable insights and encouragement.
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